Why is it about forgiveness that its so hard. Even when we know that its the thing but most of the time we ignore it. It is impossible to forgive someone better die bitter in our heart. What make a man to say sorry so hard when its a five letter word. But forgiveness was never impossible. Its just take a little honest time from you. If people use this in time many wars would have been prevented, many broken heart should have been mended and many lost friends would have been found. I still wonder what did we gain from being so stubborn and self-righteous ? I am not sure what did we gain from being self centric.
In every great man life, they use only one mantray to be the most selfless and powerful. That is “Forgiveness“. Its not a big deal to forgive someone that you really hate or disgust. How long do we think that we will live in this world. Do we really want to hate your enemy till you die. Do you really expect that God ll except you with all the hatred that you carry inside. But he might because he forgive you first when you commit wrong against him.
Why should we forgive? Well different people might have different views. But we should not forget that everyone not perfect and everyone deserve second chance. It can be you ..me..or anybody.
I have a story of a family which was on fire all the time. Everytime my fren Marchang went home all his parents shouted him for being the blacksheep of the family. His parents force him always to complete his graduation and took up a job and support there family. But as Marchang always end up drunk with there frens. So one night he got a big fight with his father and he decided to leave the house never to come back again.
He left for Delhi a land of opportunity and he explore the world and many days later he realize that he got everything, money fame and power but he is missing something. He still carry all the hatred within his heart. His home is not far away but he canot forgive his parents for what they treat him. He felt suffocate with all the hate inside him still he felt good thinking that they will learn a lesson for all the trouble they gave.
One day, he was passing by there apartment and he notice lots of crowd gathering in there house. But he decided not to visit and he drove away. Later a day, a phone ring and when he picks up, there was a call from his family friend, Bill. “your Mom and Dad pass away in an car accident looking out for you”. A tears roll from his eyes and all the memories flash back in his eyes. He cried and scream but that was too late. He rust to his old home but the funeral was already over. Mr Bill hand out a letter to him and say “Your Mom dies waiting for believing that you will come”. When he open the paper there its written “all is forgiven”. Forgiveness its come free for everyone. Its kills all hatred and will change the view you use to see the world.